A lesson I learnt in life...

In life, there will be many different types of people that I will come across with…people come and go

in my life…certainly there will be happy moments and unpleasant moments…people I like, and also

people I don’t agree with…I may not understand why certain people do certain things or made a

terrible decision that they knew long ago that will make their lives in a mess…

Each and every one of us was brought up with a different upbringing… that is where

misunderstands, conflicts, disagrees occur. I don’t expect everyone to have the same mentality,

attitudes, moral values as I have… I admit that everyone do make mistakes including me…when I

was disorientated, there are people around me, always there to get me back on the right track…

Maybe I should start seeing things from a different perspective… when people around me are on the

wrong track, I must start to influence them positively, step into their world and pull them back…this

sentence sounds easy to me last time…but after experiencing certain incident, , today I learned a

lesson… besides patient and love, I need to change more on the way I see things…When I try to bring

people back to the right track, I need to spend time to understand their world…there are many basic

values such as responsibility, gratitude I think that everyone should know and should do things this

way…but many times it turns out with disappointments and angriness…

But now I learned to think that, I don’t put my values on others…I need to learn to don’t get angry

with other’s mistakes, it is not worth it…instead, I should continue impact and influence people

positively…don’t give up easily…God did not give up on me, what right I have to give up on

others?...the people I mix with always have a seasons…this seasons they come, next seasons they

go…

how long can I be with this person? What can I impact in her or his life? What influence I am to

her? What I want people to remember about me?...

giving is better than receiving…is time to stop counting how much effort I putting in and start giving,

impacting and influencing people around me positively…